Relationships, Friendships, and Community

Carina Montoya • July 19, 2026

Any relationship worth keeping requires nurturing. Here's some useful tools for how to do so.

I am not affiliated with any of the below authors (though I would love to meet them, someday!).

Come As You Are / Come Together - Emily Nagoski

Polysecure / Polywise - Jessica Fern

Platonic - Marisa G Franco

Good Sex - Dr. Candice Nicole

Thriving in Non-Monogamy - Eric Davidson

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